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  • Why “I’m Sorry” Is Not an Apology

    Why “I’m Sorry” Is Not an Apology

    By Ezra Nadav Somewhere along the way, “I’m sorry” became confused with accountability. It isn’t. “I’m sorry” can mean many things: But none of those things are necessarily an apology. A real apology contains something far more difficult than discomfort: responsibility. An apology requires a person to clearly acknowledge: without immediately shifting blame, defending themselves,…

  • Iran Didn’t Create This Crisis. It Is Actively Driving It — And It’s Still Not the Whole Story.

    Iran Didn’t Create This Crisis. It Is Actively Driving It — And It’s Still Not the Whole Story.

    Iran is actively disrupting shipping through the Strait of Hormuz, but the scale of the fallout says something bigger about us. This crisis is not just about a hostile actor. It is about the fragility of a system built on dependency, long supply lines, and too little resilience.

  • Chronic Illness Is That Coworker Who Never Gets Fired

    Chronic Illness Is That Coworker Who Never Gets Fired

    Some days, chronic illness isn’t tragic — it’s just deeply annoying. A dark-humoured look at what it’s like to negotiate daily life with a body that won’t cooperate, won’t explain itself, and somehow never gets performance-managed.

  • Pogrom by Any Definition

    Pogrom by Any Definition

    A part of the ‘On Second Thought‘ series By: Ezra Nadav Only in Australia would the firebombing of a synagogue on shabbat with 20 people inside not be classified as an act of terror. But that’s Melbourne, Australia, in 2025. A place where virtue-signalling criminals are permitted to run roughshod over public order, while law-abiding…

  • The Compassion Con: Why Appeasing the Abuser Never Leads to Peace

    The Compassion Con: Why Appeasing the Abuser Never Leads to Peace

    Explore how a generation raised to equate self-defence with aggression has become vulnerable to propaganda and radicalisation. This article examines why rational debate cannot undo terror-fueled extremism—and why appeasement is not peace.

  • Weaponised Liberty

    Weaponised Liberty

    When freedom shields the radical, not the righteous. Part of the ‘Not Quite What You Meant’ series By: Ezra Nadav There is a dangerous irony unfolding in the heart of liberal democracies: the very freedoms designed to protect the vulnerable are now shielding those who terrorise them. In the name of justice, progress, and liberation,…

  • Absurdity in Morality: The 2025 Sydney Peace Prize

    Absurdity in Morality: The 2025 Sydney Peace Prize

    The 2025 Sydney Peace Prize goes to a figure long at the centre of anti-Israel bias. What does this say about justice, truth, and global human rights today?

  • Discomfort is not harm.

    Discomfort is not harm.

    The Discomfort of Learning Is Not a Psychological Crisis Part of the ‘Not Quite What You Meant’ series By: Ezra Nadav Somewhere along the way, we began to confuse learning with comfort. In adult learning environments especially, training rooms, university lecture halls, continuing education seminars, there’s a growing expectation that the space must feel safe.…

  • BREAKING: “Good Morning” Officially Cancelled for Being Emotionally Aggressive

    Part of the ‘Not Quite What You Meant’ series By: Ezra Nadav In today’s latest installment of “Words That Will End Your Career,” saying “Good morning” has now been deemed a microaggression in certain corners of the internet. Apparently, greeting your coworkers with a cheerful salutation before 9am is now considered a violent imposition of mood, a…

  • When Protest Becomes Performance

    When Protest Becomes Performance

    Part of the ‘Not Quite What You Meant’ series By: Ezra Nadav In a time when political conviction is often measured by volume and visibility, it’s easy to forget that how we speak can matter just as much as what we say. This piece isn’t a defence of power or politeness—it’s a call to think…